Giving people are more interesting and engaging than folks who are merely gifted. 

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Fenton Five 5.  “Progressive” and “conservative” labels are becoming increasingly irrelevant. Making progress is of little value if you are not going in the right direction. Clinging to longtime values is not a virtue if the values are not good. Last month I heard a self-proclaimed “progressive” express his delight that a protest had effectively […]

Begin your day with…

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Fenton Five Daily Leadership Affirmations: Begin your day by doing the following and you will find that  these affirmations are more effective than one cup of your favorite caffeine and with the only side effect of a productive day , but you still may want your morning caffeine as well. 5.  I will set realistic […]

Fenton Leadership Five

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Fenton Leadership Five Moving forward is always preceded by looking ahead. Effective leaders focus on creating tomorrow rather than second guessing yesterday.  While understanding past failures is a necessary step to avoid repeating them, excessive reliving our mistakes is not only counter-productive, it can lead to self-pity.  If any verse was left out of the […]

Shorter than usual but worth the read:

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Fenton Five 5.  Character is both who you are and what you do. Regardless of how good your stated values are and how honorable your intentions, you do not have good character unless it is reflected in the choices you make and the actions you take. 4. Arrogance and worry are similar. Arrogance never asks […]

Fenton Five: Graduation Edition

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Below are five brief thoughts I invite you to share with the 2017 graduates. 5. Determine to contribute to the good of humanity and begin with contributing to the spiritual, physical and emotional well-being of those around you now. If you are not interested in improving the quality of life of those you know, you […]

Fenton Five with an Easter Flavor

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Fenton Five with an Easter Flavor 5.Character finds its roots in hope and not in guilt, shame or despair. This is why lectures from parents or authorities often are counter-productive. The death/resurrection reality (otherwise known as Easter) allows us to experience hope even when we do not have an external cheerleader. 4.Thoughts of revenge are […]

Fenton Five

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5. To be selfish with your time and your possessions reveals either a major misunderstanding of the Christian faith or the intentional denial of the Christian faith. While some new believers in and followers of Jesus may not be aware that the grace-created life is to be a service-directed life, those folks are probably few […]

Just Because We Are Talking Does Not Mean That We Are Communicating

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Families, service-based organizations and churches function similarly in that by their nature they are relational.  Communication is necessary in these entities, but too often the participants assume that because they are frequently talking with each other they are engaged in healthy communication. In the name of communication some families, organizations and service-based organizations gossip, exchange […]

Fenton Five

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5. Maybe it’s because I am becoming an old man or the result of finally growing up (I hope), but I am finding the less I care about hearing Christmas clichés, the more I desire to think about and focus on the mystery of the incarnation. 4. Recently I had a conversation with a person […]